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Psychotherapy, Neuroscience, Attachment and Mindsight

Following on the heels of my recent quest to become informed on the topic of neuroscience, attachment and relationships as itNotes from a Therapist's Chair - The Therapy Counseling Blog relates to my psychotherapy work, I went to a workshop today led by Dan Siegel, MD, on his latest book, Mindsight: The New Science of Personal Transformation.  I left even more enthusiastic and thrilled to be a clinician in this day and age than I was before I sat down.  (See my series, The Therapist Consultation Room to see the beginning of my interest in this subject, having just joined a new group looking at our psychotherapy clients through the lens of neuroscience and relationships.)

I’d like to share some nuggets of information obtained today which might be of interest to therapists and perhaps others:

  • Definition of “Mind:” A regulatory process that is both an embodied and relational process and regulates the flow of energy and information.
  • Definition of “Mindsight:”  An understanding of meaning and energy patterns in self and others.  You are an active author of your own unfolding journey of life - vs a passive rider.
  • When you focus attention in a new way you can change the function and structure of the brain.
  • There’s a direct connection between receiving empathy and neuron response in the brain.
  • Clients either come to therapy with chaos or rigidity in their lives – or a combination of two. 
  • The brain responds to childhood abuse by shrinking and having less regulatory response.
  • Mindfulness meditation strengthens the integrative fibers in the brain.
  • Every branch of psychotherapy uses awareness as an agent of change – though it might not be labeled as such.
  • Shared awareness (therapist-client dyad for example) promotes integration in the brain.
  • Healthy infant attachment promotes integration in the brain.
  • Mindfulness meditation causes distinct shift in left side of brain – which also promotes immune function – and is an indicator of an increase in the type of happiness people experience around having meaning in life and compassion.
  • Trauma leads to massive secretions of cortisol/adrenaline which increases implicit memory coding while shutting down the hyppocampus (required for explicit memory coding)
  • Children with parents who did not attune to them experience shame with the defective belief that there is something wrong with them.  It is a survival skill preserving the attachment relationship at the time but unhelpful as they carry onward into adulthood still carrying this belief.
  • Kindness and compassion to one’s inner world is the breath of life.

There was a lot of very complex information given today and the above only touches on a few of the ideas around Interpersonal Neurobiology.  I picked up the book and look forward to reading it.  There are some excellent resources out there if you’re interested in delving further into this topic.  Here are a few:

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Lisa Brookes Kift is a psychotherapist and writer.  She is the creator of Notes from a Therapist’s Chair: The Therapy and Counseling Blog for therapists, a feature of The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com.  Sign up for the Notes from a Therapist’s Chair Blog RSS Feed to get the most recent posts by Lisa.

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  1. Lisa, I’m thrilled that you were able to take the workshop with Dan, and that we share the excitement over being clinicians with these powerful new ways of helping. (I’m also delighted that you shared my PT.com blog as a resource — thank you!) My website will be updated soon, and I’ll happily include you there as a recommended resource, as well. The more people are learning about this, the better!

  2. Thanks so much for posting this information. I wanted to hear him speak in L.A., but it didn’t work with my schedule. I do plan to travel to Philadelphia and will be hearing Dr. Siegel and Dr. Doidge speak on the subject.

    I’ve been incorporating some of the “Mindsight” suggestions into my coaching practice and it’s made a huge difference with my clients. I have a background as a Cognitive Learning Specialist, so I already knew about the openness of the brain. I’m so glad that the topic is now getting more attention.

    Wishing you the best. I love your blog.
    Mary Ann

  3. I am so glad to have bumped into your blog spot. Thank you for being a talented writer. I love to stay linked with people in my profession who are continuing to grow and expand their thinking about treatment. I have been studying neuroscience, attachment and mindfulness treatments for many years. My entire practice is dedicated to treating individuals, couples, families and adoptive families caring for attachment challenged children or those diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder.

    I am subscribing to your feed and look forward to how this all unfolds for you.

  4. Am loving all of the interest and excitement on the topic of Interpersonal Neurobiology. It’s clear there are many of us therapists out there thrilled about the possiblities for our practices and our clients!

    Marsha – Dan’s workshop just futher invigorated me. Thank you for offering to put a link to me on your new website – that’s great!

    MaryAnn – Thanks for sharing your experience incorporating some of the ideas from “Mindsight.” I’m looking forward to doing the same – and learning more!

    Ce – I’m glad you bumped into my blog as well – and thanks for the writing compliment. I really enjoy this piece to my work. Your work with Reactive Attachment Disorder is sooo important – thank you for doing what you do!

    Warmly,
    Lisa

    The Toolbox at http:LisaKiftTherapy.com

  5. Hello Lisa,
    Thank you for the fascinating information. I will certainly be reading this book.

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