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If your gut is telling you something just isn’t right in your relationship – then something is probably not right.  But how many of us have at one time or another ignored the “red flags” waving furiously in front of our faces?  Probably a good many of us.  Some “red flags” are more serious than others – and the reality is, people can get blinded by emotions to such a degree that major problems are minimized – only to become big time relationship issues down the line. 

Here are 4 relationship red flags that would probably be best not to ignore:

1. Explosive Anger.  This anger may eventually be directed towards you – and be dangerous.
2. Lies.  How can you develop trust with someone who often doesn’t tell the truth?
3. Belittling and Sarcasm.  The long term effect of this behavior is a whittling down of your self esteem.
4. Alcohol / Substance Abuse.  If your partner admits there’s a problem then perhaps this can be worked on.  But if not, beware as this can be a slippery slope that has the potential to impact everything.

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Lisa Brookes Kift is a couples therapist and author of the Therapy-At-Home Workbooks® series.  See more marriage and relationship tips by Lisa.

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