Comments on: The Power of Behavior in Relationships http://lisakifttherapy.com/relationships/relationship-articles/the-power-of-behavior-in-relationships/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-power-of-behavior-in-relationships Tools for Marriage, Relationship and Emotional Health. Articles, tips, advice. Tue, 22 May 2012 14:47:38 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Raymond Bork http://lisakifttherapy.com/relationships/relationship-articles/the-power-of-behavior-in-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-2082 Raymond Bork Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:13:14 +0000 http://lisakifttherapy.com/?p=294#comment-2082 An Interesting post. the bullet points you raise in 'Behavior that draws others in' could be a manual for how to get to know people you are attracted to. whereas 'Behavior that pushes others away' could be how the relationship has developed after a long period, where it has become stagnant. You write that 'many people don't understand the power of behavior to hurt others'. I think they do, but because they have grown bored or complacent in the relationship they no longer respect their partner. And so behave as they please without any thought for the feelings of their partner. Where there is no respect, there is only contempt. An Interesting post. the bullet points you raise in ‘Behavior that draws others in’ could be a manual for how to get to know people you are attracted to. whereas ‘Behavior that pushes others away’ could be how the relationship has developed after a long period, where it has become stagnant.

You write that ‘many people don’t understand the power of behavior to hurt others’. I think they do, but because they have grown bored or complacent in the relationship they no longer respect their partner. And so behave as they please without any thought for the feelings of their partner.

Where there is no respect, there is only contempt.

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