Mindfulness in Relationships 
Whether Single or in a Relationship, True Love Can Be Yours (1)
Valentines Day is just around the corner. Whatever meaning you attach to it and whatever feelings it brings up (affection, romance, sadness or ambivalence) I’d like to take the opportunity to explore love as it exists or has existed in your life. Being human, we are born wired to connect with others. We seek a secure attachment [...]
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5 Ways to Stay Cool in the Face of Another’s Emotional Reactivity
I had a recent experience that tested my patience and challenged me to remain calm in the face of aggressive, critical words. My initial instinct (my primal lizard brain in activation) was to fight back, defend and point out the ways in which this person had totally missed the mark. But I didn’t. This choice [...]
Mindfulness and Keeping it Real in Relationships by Marsha Lucas, PhD
There’s a myth that won’t seem to die in popular understanding of anger. Back in the 1960’s, psychology (doing the best it could as a very young science) put forth the notion that “venting” your anger, letting it all hang out, was the way to go if you wanted to be emotionally healthy. Venting (a.k.a. [...]
Your Emotional Leftovers – and How to Clear Out the Fridge by Re-wiring Your Brain
Neuropsychologist and writer, Marsha Lucas, PhD believes that emotional leftovers are similar to leftovers in your fridge. They’re kind of messy – and much of the time they get old and you might even delay their removal longer than desired. The following is a permission granted adaptation of her October 2010 newsletter, Rewire Your Brain for Love. We’re wired so that [...]
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