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		<title>Relationship Advice: My Ex is Living with my Family</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 12:07:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[So my girlfriend and I went out for several months and then all of a sudden in mid to late August she asked for a break in the relationship because she lost her job, place to live, and everything was just chaotic in her family life.  She still wants to go to college to and [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: I Keep Turning Away Good Men</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 14:14:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Expectations]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ll try to keep it short and sweet. I am 24 going on 25 and I am concerned about not finding &#8220;Mr. Right&#8221;. I have been in three relationships that I would consider serious. All three ended the same way.. me getting bored after sometime, feeling left unfulfilled and breaking their heart. All three were [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: Uncomfortable with my Boyfriend&#8217;s Relationship with his Female Friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 21:50:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m 36, and I&#8217;ve been dating a 29 year old man for a year and a half now.  There are a lot of nuances that I don&#8217;t have time to recount, but my basic problem is this.  My boyfriend has a female best friend (25 years old) who I feel interferes with our relationship, to [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: We Have a Strange Relationship</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2009 21:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Me and my (boy)friend, we are just friends for now, but in a strange relationship. Strange because a year ago, we&#8217;d planned to move to another state together and from that time he started to act like we are more than a just friends, he changed his status on his facebook page from single to married with [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: My Boyfriend Lives With His Ex-Wife</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 05:18:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Boyfriend divorced eight years, lives an hour from me. we have been together two years. Exwife ran out of money and having no one he let her sort of move in with him and their son but she is not making a giant effort to help herself and she is also recovered from breast cancer [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: He Says He Wants Me in His Future but Doesn&#8217;t Act Like It!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Apr 2009 04:49:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Lisa. Me and my bf have been together for 18 months. I have not met his family_ he has one sibling that lives probably an hour away from him and he sees probably once or twice in a year. He also has two young kids. He and his ex has an arrangement not to [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: My boyfriend&#8217;s anger scared me</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My boyfriend and I have a pretty healthy relationship I would say, but we recently got into an argument where he became a completely different person. He got to an anger level that I felt like I did not know him anymore and said lots of hurtful things; we however have long-term relationships plans but&#8230; [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: Girlfriend added an attractive guy as a friend on Facebook</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:32:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My girlfriend and I recently got back together and we have been working very hard at the relationship, but I have a concern and do not know how to approach it with her. I was adding her as a friend on facebook and noticed she added a very attractive guy as a friend with similar [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: How Did My Relationship Change So Fast?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I dated this girl for almost two years. Trusted her, respected her, and gave her her space.  Recently traveled with friends which again I trusted her and when she came back she was extrememly different said that she just wanted to be single and that it wasn&#8217;t me but it was her and i should [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice: I&#8217;m Living My Dream But Boyfriend Isn&#8217;t</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jan 2009 22:45:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When my boyfriend and I first met over two years ago, we were both poor young adults chasing our dreams of being successful musicians.  He a guitarist/songwriter in a band, myself, a vocalist.  For years, I  had been afraid of truly pursuing my dream of being a singer.  Though  I was in a choir, I [...]
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