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	<title>The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com &#187; Marriage</title>
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		<title>Marriage Advice: Should I Divorce My Wandering Husband?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This occurred last year February after valentine&#8217;s day&#8230;.i had suspicions about my husband seeing/talking to another woman.. he denied it at first but then after a few weeks he confirmed that he has a female friend who he has been talking to for over a year and at that time we had only been married [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: Husband Says Our Problems Are All My Fault</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 14:06:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My husband says he doesn&#8217;t have any problems and it&#8217;s all me&#8230;.He doesn’t take anything I say to heart. He will almost and has came right out and said that everything I am concerned about is nonsense. I just want him to look at me as an important part of his life and he doesn’t [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: Communication for a Troubled Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 07:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am a 25 yr old who is married with 3 children. I am married to my first love. We are having problems in our marriage. We are not really communicating and it is to the point where the kids are emotionally affected. He tends to have his family intervening in our marriage.. I love [...]


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		<title>Relationship Advice: Can First Loves Find Each Other Again?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:32:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was married right out of high school and divorced two years later, we were together for a total of 5 years and have a daughter during that time. I recently began talking to my ex wife (we haven&#8217;t spoken in 24 years) and the conversations that we are having have little to do with [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: I caught my wife in bed with her friend</title>
		<link>http://lisakifttherapy.com/relationships/ask-the-therapist-a-marriage-and-relationship-advice-blog/ask-the-therapist-i-caught-my-wife-in-bed-with-her-friend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 07:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you can give me a little advice.  Recently I thought I found my wife and her best friend in a very compromising situation in bed. She was sharing the bed because I offered to take the pullout.  Anyway, I was asleep when the two came home and went to bed. A little later I thought I [...]


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		<title>Relationship Advice: I Love Him but his Lack of Compromise Scares Me</title>
		<link>http://lisakifttherapy.com/relationships/ask-the-therapist-a-marriage-and-relationship-advice-blog/ask-the-therapist-i-love-him-but-his-lack-of-compromise-scares-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:50:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<title>Ask the Therapist &#8211; I&#8217;m in Love with an Abusive Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My son&#8217;s father and I have been together for 9 years total.  When we got together I found out a few weeks later he was married.  Ifell for the lies  and the stories that he wasn&#8217;t happy and that he was getting divorced etc etc etc&#8230; I&#8217;m not proud of it and would never do [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: My wife&#8217;s relationship with a woman is tearing our marriage apart</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been married for 13 years and have two kids (11yr old son and 8yr old daughter). My wife is a very intelligent person with good Christian values and very trust worthy. We&#8217;ve had a normal marriage (ups and downs) and always had good communication. In 2007, I had a brief online emotional affair with [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice:  I&#8217;m in an Emotionally Abusive Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 17:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I started dating my husband when I was 19 and he was 36. I came from a broken home where there was extreme violence and alcohol abuse, so I did not want to have anything to do with alcohol. He told me that he was only a social drinker, but come to find out he [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: I&#8217;ve Been &#8220;Faking It&#8221; With My Husband</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 18:46:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve gotten myself into an extremely difficult situation, and any advice what so ever will be greatly appreciated.  I am 21 y/o and my husband and I have been married for two years now, and sexually active for three.  I have had one other partner, and the two of us were active for one year.  [...]


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