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	<title>The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com &#187; Infidelity</title>
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		<title>Marriage Advice: Should I Divorce My Wandering Husband?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This occurred last year February after valentine&#8217;s day&#8230;.i had suspicions about my husband seeing/talking to another woman.. he denied it at first but then after a few weeks he confirmed that he has a female friend who he has been talking to for over a year and at that time we had only been married [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: I caught my wife in bed with her friend</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 07:43:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you can give me a little advice.  Recently I thought I found my wife and her best friend in a very compromising situation in bed. She was sharing the bed because I offered to take the pullout.  Anyway, I was asleep when the two came home and went to bed. A little later I thought I [...]


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		<title>Ask the Therapist &#8211; I&#8217;m in Love with an Abusive Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My son&#8217;s father and I have been together for 9 years total.  When we got together I found out a few weeks later he was married.  Ifell for the lies  and the stories that he wasn&#8217;t happy and that he was getting divorced etc etc etc&#8230; I&#8217;m not proud of it and would never do [...]


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		<title>Ask the Therapist &#8211; Why Does He Keep Cheating on His Girlfriends with Me?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Dec 2009 18:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kind of a long story but i&#8217;ll try to bullet it.  Basically, I need a neutral party perspective on the situation since my friends tell me what I want to hear.
I&#8217;ve known this guy since I was 6 years old.  We were on a recreation swim team together until we were about 12.  We didn&#8217;t [...]


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		<title>Relationship Advice: Affairs and Trusting Your Instincts</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 21:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been dating a man for three years.  When we first met we hit it off right away.  We saw each other every day and I felt like he truly loved me a lot.  I really felt like I was in a fairytale-he was so fantastic.  About a year into our relationship he proposed, [...]


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		<title>Relationship Advice: Cheating Boyfriend and Trouble Forgiving</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 23:09:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found out 4 months ago that my boyfriend had been cheating on me for 5 months. It was a huge shock because we had always had an amazing relationship before their “affair” started. Things were definitely strained between us during those months that he was seeing someone else and I could never understand why [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice: My wife&#8217;s relationship with a woman is tearing our marriage apart</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:09:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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