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		<title>Relationship Advice:  Better to be alone or feel alone together?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 23:18:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My partner &#38; I have been living together for 14 years.  I ignored earlier instints (red flags) and continued anyway.  Suggested we go for counseling to deal with anger issues (family of origin issues), &#38; to learn/practice better communication. Counseling refused several times over the years.  I&#8217;m tired of emotional roller coaster &#38; feeling emotionally [...]
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		<title>Relationship Advice:  My boyfriend is spending less time with me</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Aug 2011 14:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 21:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The man I have been dating for about 4 months has lived with a female roommate since we met. That was never really a problem for me&#8230;although I did vaguely wonder if they had dated at one point. Of course, I found out through the magic of Facebook that they were in a relationship a [...]
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 12:00:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi. I loved a man intensely, later in life (I am heading into my 40&#8242;s). To be honest, he was my first boyfriend.  We loved each other a lot, but broke up for various reasons. I initiated it, but 2 months later i called him again because I wanted us to try to work things [...]
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