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	<title>The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com &#187; Abuse</title>
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		<title>Ask the Therapist &#8211; My Boyfriend Gets Aggressive When Drunk</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been in a relationship for almost 8 months. The relationship has been good when we&#8217;re together but he has always had trust issues with me whenever I&#8217;m seeing my friends or if I&#8217;m going out. Somehow I&#8217;ve just sort of accepted it and I&#8217;ve lost a lot of friends. When we were out [...]


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		<title>Ask the Therapist &#8211; I&#8217;m in Love with an Abusive Man</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:18:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My son&#8217;s father and I have been together for 9 years total.  When we got together I found out a few weeks later he was married.  Ifell for the lies  and the stories that he wasn&#8217;t happy and that he was getting divorced etc etc etc&#8230; I&#8217;m not proud of it and would never do [...]


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		<title>Relationship Advice: Issues of Privacy and Verbal Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 00:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been dating J for 1 1/2 years. We recently moved in together, I&#8217;m 27 and he&#8217;s 31. 
 
We&#8217;ve had a few issues over the past 6 months, mostly due to me not feeling like he gives me enough affection which in turn makes me feel unloved. We talked about it and he is making an [...]


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		<title>Marriage Advice:  I&#8217;m in an Emotionally Abusive Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 17:27:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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