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	<title>The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com &#187; Anger Management</title>
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		<title>The Toolbox: Top 10 Emotional Health Articles for 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[New Years Eve 2011 is rapidly approaching and I am thankful for the support I’ve received for The Toolbox at LisaKiftTherapy.com  - one of the original therapist-created websites.  As a therapist who writes and also maintains a busy private practice, it’s important to me to maintain the quality and integrity of this site.   2011 has been [...]


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		<title>Steps to Identify Your Unhelpful Belief Systems</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 12:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you struggle with anger, depression, anxiety or recurring relationship problems and have the sense that it might have roots somewhere in your past?  Trust your instincts. There&#8217;s likely something there worth taking a look at. I work extensively with people in individual therapy to assist them in working through the past &#8211; to move on [...]


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		<title>Stay Right When You&#8217;re Wronged by Rick Hanson, PhD</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 18:55:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s easy to treat people well when they treat you well. The real test is when they treat you badly.    Think of times you&#8217;ve been truly wronged, in small ways or big ones. Maybe someone stole something , turned others against you, broke an agreement, cheated on you, or spoke unfairly or abusively.  When [...]


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		<title>Mindfulness and Keeping it Real in Relationships by Marsha Lucas, PhD</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2011 21:42:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There’s a myth that won’t seem to die in popular understanding of anger. Back in the 1960’s, psychology (doing the best it could as a very young science) put forth the notion that “venting” your anger, letting it all hang out, was the way to go if you wanted to be emotionally healthy. Venting (a.k.a. [...]


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		<title>4 &#8220;Can&#8217;t-Miss&#8221; Tools for Improved Resilience and Emotional Health</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Apr 2011 22:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<title>3 Tools for Effective Anger Management</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2010 06:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<title>Anger Management Using the Compliment Sandwich by Dr. Lyle Becourtney, Ph.D.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Aug 2010 06:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you ever find yourself getting more and more angry and frustrated while trying to explain what is bothering you? Perhaps you feel like others are not really listening to you or trying to understand things from your perspective. In such circumstances, you may end up raising your voice or becoming verbally or even physically [...]


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		<title>Where Has all the Anger Gone? by John C. Flanagan, LCSW</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 02:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lisa Brookes Kift, MFT</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Little Things Upset Me, Yet I Feel No Anger About My Trauma. How Come?&#8221; &#8220;A lot of bad things happened to me. Shouldn&#8217;t I be feeling more angry about it?&#8221; The dictionary defines anger as a strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a real or supposed wrong. Often times in PTSD, in spite [...]


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		<title>Emotional Overload: One Thing You can do Right Now to Soothe Yourself</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 15:22:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intense emotions such as anger, fear and sadness can be crippling in the moment.  They can feel like they &#8220;take you over.&#8221;  In a way, they do.  This is because if you are so upset that your brain is literally in a &#8220;fight-or-flight&#8221; mode, there is likely a lot of cortisol (the stress hormone) coursing through [...]


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